just a stub, we never ended up using it. maybe will use it some day. sqlrelay is super cool!
mkdir /var/cache/sqlrelay/tmp
mkdir /var/cache/sqlrelay/tmp/ipc
mkdir /var/cache/sqlrelay/tmp/sockets
mkdir /var/cache/sqlrelay/tmp/pids
test the connection to see if it is ssl:
ngrep -d eth2 string-to-search