Complementary virtues¶ amiability charisma civility etiquette poise Contrasting vices¶ when charm is superficial, masking unpleasant traits, people don’t care for it off-putting Virtues possibly in tension¶ straightforwardness How to acquire or strengthen it¶ TBD Notes and links¶ TBD Mentioned elsewhere¶ TBD Inspirational quotes¶ TBD